Wednesday, November 28, 2012

You are....

You, are many things. Some people may call you, dumb, some people may call you fat. Some may even call you outside of your name like a hoe. But, you are not what they call you. You are you, and that is awesome! and keep on being you. So many people do not know how to be theirs selves, that it is not even funny. They do not want to be judged or teased for the way they dress, or look. Yet, who cares what they think of you, that is their opinion, not a fact. 

You, are someone who is capable of doing something good with your life. Do not ever let anyone tell you, you will never amount to anything in life, because they are jealous and insecure because they have no goals they want to reach, they are just living, but just living, is not the way to live. To just live, is telling someone to just throw that foot ball, to just eat that sandwich. To just do something without having anything to look forward to is not something you want out of life. 

You, are whoever you want to be in life. If you let bullies get in the way of how you live, and how you see yourself, you will not have happiness in life, it is just that simple. Nothing can bring you up because you are letting others get inside of your mind, and dictate how you are feeling. They are someone like you. They hurt like you, they cry like you, so how are you going to let them take control of your life?

Think about that, for yourself. Keep this in mind. So next time when someone has something rude to say. Just look the other way, and know that you are the better person. and know that you will become someone in life. 


JUST KNOW WHO YOU ARE! 

Lights, Camera, Action!

Hey guys and girls, I am back! I will be doing a show on you tube, next month some time after I get done taking my tests to get to 11th grade. I will basically be discussing bullying.. of course! and some new strategies that I know will work for you. Yet, in the mean time, I will keep posting new posts weekly for everyone to see. Look below, because here are some main things, that will be discussed: 

1. What should you do, when you are being bullied? 
2. How do I know if I am being bullied? 
3. Tips and advice to cope with bullying
4. Peer pressure, and what is it? 
5. Cyber-bullying. 

Yet, do not worry, because I will not discuss all of these topics in one session. Each session will only talk about one topic. and the videos will be created once a week. So bring a pen and a pencil. When the day grows closer, I will input the links, for you to watch it. and once I grow my audience they will become live!! 

I have a good feeling that I can actually do something to help make a change. You know how some people say, go with your gut feeling? Well that is what I am doing, and I love my gut! lol :- I love you, and always keep your head up high! 

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Support

I recently made a comment on you tube, about a girl who was being physically abused, bullied. And I was horrified. So look below, and see the posts that I created. 

I am creating a website for people who are being bullied, and this video is going on my website. For people who are wanting to become suicidal. Its not fun to be bullied, because I was before, and I seen others being bullied, and it needs to stop, and I am on a journey to make sure it does. GIVE ME A THUMBS UP IF I HAVE YOUR SUPPORT!

Then shortly after I made that comment, look what came up. 

I was bullied in high school about 5 yrs ago.. I was physically bullied and verbally assaulted and I dropped out of high school b/c of it.. I am now taking classes at Ashworth and James Madison High School at the age of 21 just to put my life back together that they broke.. I have 2 kids and 1 of which is epileptic and suffers from seizures.. I am still mentally at a point where I hate the human race and it's only getting worse, people are only getting worse..
just know that this world is not easy. And that there will be many obstacles coming your way, and you need to be strong no matter what, because in the end everything will pay off. God bless you :)

You can view the video, and you can also give me a thumbs up on my comment! My you tube name is Ashanti Muhammad. Subscribe to my channel, and I just want to know if I have your support. 



Friday, November 2, 2012

Bullying is not an excuse

In today's society  bullying is coming off as an excuse for kids are going to be kids. So why are kids committing suicide? Something needs to be done as soon as possible. The school's claim that they have a strict policy on bullying. But if they did, then why are so many students complaining that there is still bullying going on in the school?

The school's are not doing anything at all. What they need to do is pin point the bullies in the classrooms, and get them out of there, and isolate them away from everyone who cares about their future. What is it going to take for someone to realize that bullying is no joke? Till someone dies, or gets severely injured? We need to think smarter about this and come up with some solutions that can help everyone. 

If it was one of your loved ones who was terrified to go to school because someone was going to tease them, you would do everything in your power to make sure they can go to school, and feel safe. The question is, what are you going to do?