You are....

You, are many things. Some people may call you, dumb, some people may call you fat. Some may even call you outside of your name like a hoe. But, you are not what they call you. You are you, and that is awesome! and keep on being you. So many people do not know how to be theirs selves, that it is not even funny. They do not want to be judged or teased for the way they dress, or look. Yet, who cares what they think of you, that is their opinion, not a fact. 

You, are someone who is capable of doing something good with your life. Do not ever let anyone tell you, you will never amount to anything in life, because they are jealous and insecure because they have no goals they want to reach, they are just living, but just living, is not the way to live. To just live, is telling someone to just throw that foot ball, to just eat that sandwich. To just do something without having anything to look forward to is not something you want out of life. 

You, are whoever you want to be in life. If you let bullies get in the way of how you live, and how you see yourself, you will not have happiness in life, it is just that simple. Nothing can bring you up because you are letting others get inside of your mind, and dictate how you are feeling. They are someone like you. They hurt like you, they cry like you, so how are you going to let them take control of your life?

Think about that, for yourself. Keep this in mind. So next time when someone has something rude to say. Just look the other way, and know that you are the better person. and know that you will become someone in life. 


JUST KNOW WHO YOU ARE! 

Lights, Camera, Action!

Hey guys and girls, I am back! I will be doing a show on you tube, next month some time after I get done taking my tests to get to 11th grade. I will basically be discussing bullying.. of course! and some new strategies that I know will work for you. Yet, in the mean time, I will keep posting new posts weekly for everyone to see. Look below, because here are some main things, that will be discussed: 

1. What should you do, when you are being bullied? 
2. How do I know if I am being bullied? 
3. Tips and advice to cope with bullying
4. Peer pressure, and what is it? 
5. Cyber-bullying. 

Yet, do not worry, because I will not discuss all of these topics in one session. Each session will only talk about one topic. and the videos will be created once a week. So bring a pen and a pencil. When the day grows closer, I will input the links, for you to watch it. and once I grow my audience they will become live!! 

I have a good feeling that I can actually do something to help make a change. You know how some people say, go with your gut feeling? Well that is what I am doing, and I love my gut! lol :- I love you, and always keep your head up high! 

Support

I recently made a comment on you tube, about a girl who was being physically abused, bullied. And I was horrified. So look below, and see the posts that I created. 

I am creating a website for people who are being bullied, and this video is going on my website. For people who are wanting to become suicidal. Its not fun to be bullied, because I was before, and I seen others being bullied, and it needs to stop, and I am on a journey to make sure it does. GIVE ME A THUMBS UP IF I HAVE YOUR SUPPORT!

ashanti muhammad 21 hours ago 16 

Then shortly after I made that comment, look what came up. 

I was bullied in high school about 5 yrs ago.. I was physically bullied and verbally assaulted and I dropped out of high school b/c of it.. I am now taking classes at Ashworth and James Madison High School at the age of 21 just to put my life back together that they broke.. I have 2 kids and 1 of which is epileptic and suffers from seizures.. I am still mentally at a point where I hate the human race and it's only getting worse, people are only getting worse..

Xxremedi2414xX in reply to ashanti muhammad (Show the comment) 21 hours ago

Wow! I am so sorry that has happened to you. I wish I would of known you before you left HS, because I would of just said to stay strong. Your life is important and other people do not have the right to dictate your future. And I am terribly sorry that one of your kids suffers from seizures. My younger sister use to when she was younger, but now she does not anymore. Do not hate the human race. Just know that people are really corrupted. And you should live your life to the fullest.

ashanti muhammad in reply to Xxremedi2414xX (Show the comment) 19 minutes ago

just know that this world is not easy. And that there will be many obstacles coming your way, and you need to be strong no matter what, because in the end everything will pay off. God bless you :)

ashanti muhammad in reply to Xxremedi2414xX (Show the comment) 18 minutes ago

You can view the video, and you can also give me a thumbs up on my comment! My you tube name is Ashanti Muhammad. Subscribe to my channel, and I just want to know if I have your support. 

Here is the link, if you want to go and view the comment that I made :P

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jexv1LMmSqY

Bullying is not an excuse

In today's society  bullying is coming off as an excuse for kids are going to be kids. So why are kids committing suicide? Something needs to be done as soon as possible. The school's claim that they have a strict policy on bullying. But if they did, then why are so many students complaining that there is still bullying going on in the school?

The school's are not doing anything at all. What they need to do is pin point the bullies in the classrooms, and get them out of there, and isolate them away from everyone who cares about their future. What is it going to take for someone to realize that bullying is no joke? Till someone dies, or gets severely injured? We need to think smarter about this and come up with some solutions that can help everyone. 

If it was one of your loved ones who was terrified to go to school because someone was going to tease them, you would do everything in your power to make sure they can go to school, and feel safe. The question is, what are you going to do?

Bullies need help as well!

If you are someone who is a bully. Or as I should say, someone who hurts others  intentionally because either you have insecurities that you can not get over, or home issues you need help with,  i am here to support you as well. I know you are wondering why i want to help someone that is being rude to people. But the truth is, I have hope in you, that you will one day, stop what you are doing, and showing the world who you truly are.

We all have a story, no matter what our background is. You can not keep holding all of your anger inside because it causes stress. I care, and I can't stress that enough. You have a bright future, and I know that if you trust me, I will be a friend, sister , teacher and your guide, as long as you will give me the chance to help you.

Visit my contact page for my email to contact me directly. None of your information will be sold. or looked at other than me. I promise. You are special, and you are unique, and it is time to stop living behind shadows, but starting living like the sun!

Taking Advantage of the situation

Have you ever been hurt so badly, your emotions can't even express how upset you are? Bullying can do that to you. I use to cry to myself, because I was desperate for help. Anybody, that was willing to help me, I would take it! That is what you have to do in life. I am here trying to help you, but you are not taking advantage of the situation. I can only preach so much to you, but then it is your decision whether or not you are going to take it.

You don't find too many teens, wanting to help others with their own situations. Or teens that cares so much about you, that they worry for you, hoping you are not doing anything to hurt your self. Life is too short to waists it on the bad stuff. But, to get out in the world and to start living. Bullying is tough, I know, but together we can help decrease it tremendously. Doesn't that sound like a plan?

Tell me what you think....

1. Do you think we can actually demolish bullying?
2. Are you taking advantage of the situation?

I was in your shoes before, and trust me, i know what you are feeling. But look at me now! I am happy inside and out, I am helping others in the best way as I can. And I know for sure, that you are going to be bully free. 

Bully Victims Life

When someone bullies you, its like you are dragging the whole world on your shoulders. Its too much pressure to take in at once, and you want to release the pressure. Yet, your mind throws irrational suggestions that make you consider committing suicide. Suicide is another way of telling the world that you are weak. You are letting down people who want to see you succeed. There are kids out there who have no place to live. They have no water to drink nor food to eat, and you are killing yourself over a irresponsible selfish person who is trying to make your life feel like crap. They have not killed their self because their is still hope for them. I have been bullied, but not once have I felt suicide would answer my prayers.

What is it going to help? your dead. Gone. and you couldn't of been strong enough to hold out another day. You are strong, you are wanting to get help, your heart is aching because you are being hurt or threatened everyday. I am terribly sorry, but you have got to start helping yourself is you want help from someone else. This may be hard to understand, but you are as strong as your weakest link. I am so scared for life, because no one knows when someone has had enough unless you speak up. People in the world are advertising bullying and trying to help, but why not let people help you? your scared. Gosh! everyone is scared. Even I am scared, because I feel like I let you down, if you commit suicide. I want you to be happy and bright. You have a bright future ahead of you. Its time you take advantage of it.